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Donor conception in London.
There's more than one way to start a family.

Donor eggs, donor sperm, shared motherhood, or surrogacy. The clinical, the legal and the emotional, in one place.
From
£1,500
for IUI with donor sperm

What is donor & family-building?

Not every family starts the same way, and we work with all of them: donor sperm or eggs used with IVF or IUI, shared motherhood (ROPA) where one partner provides the egg and the other carries the pregnancy, and surrogacy. What each route costs is set out in IVF with donor eggs or donor sperm.

On finding a donor from your heritage, we'll be straight with you. More than half of the donor sperm used by Black, Mixed and Other ethnicity patients is imported, because UK supply doesn't reflect who lives here. We'll show you the real picture and the international banks.

Our counselling extends to the people around you, not only you.

Illustration of egg cells

How
Donor & family-building
 works,
 step by step.

Every journey is a little different. Pick the one that fits you and see the few steps it actually involves, roughly how long each takes, and what happens at every stage.
1
Your free consultation
Approx. 15 minutes
Donor eggs or sperm, shared motherhood, or surrogacy. We talk through the routes open to you and what each one involves medically, legally and emotionally, without rushing the decision. No assumptions about your family, your relationship or your faith.
2
Tests and your plan
Approx. 2 weeks
Tests for whoever is providing the eggs and whoever is carrying the pregnancy, so the plan is built on facts rather than assumptions. You get a written plan and a full, itemised cost before anything is booked.
3
Implications counselling
Approx. 1 hour
A conversation with a specialist counsellor about what donor conception means for you and for a future child. A donor-conceived person can ask the HFEA for non-identifying information about their donor at 16, and identifying information at 18. This step comes before you choose a donor, it is required, and most people find it genuinely useful.
4
Choosing or screening a donor
Approx. 2 to 8 weeks
Matching with a donor from a licensed bank, or screening someone you already know. Known donors need infectious disease screening and testing for serious inherited conditions before they can be used. If a donor from your heritage is harder to find in the UK, we will tell you plainly and walk you through the international banks.
5
Consent and the legal side
Varies with your route
We complete your HFEA consent forms, which is how legal parenthood is recorded for donor conception and shared motherhood. Surrogacy works differently: the surrogate is the child's legal mother at birth, and parenthood transfers to you by a parental order from the court afterwards. We point you to independent legal specialists we trust.
6
Your treatment
Follows your plan
Your IVF, IUI or shared motherhood cycle goes ahead. Where one person provides the eggs and another carries the pregnancy, we synchronise the two cycles so everything lines up. The same team is with you throughout.
7
The wait, and afterwards
Approx. 2 weeks
A pregnancy test about two weeks after treatment. Counselling stays available long afterwards, and not only for you: donor conception opens conversations with partners, parents, siblings and, in time, children. Few clinics offer that. We do.

The whole journey, not just the treatment.

Your free consultation
A free consultation with a Fertility Specialist. No pressure, no jargon.
Assessment
A clear plan, including what it costs, before you commit.
Your treatment
Whatever comes next, with the same team beside you throughout.
After
The care that continues, whatever the outcome.

Our promises to you.

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You will know your total
We publish our prices and set out clearly what is and is not included, before you commit to anything.
Illustration of a blastocyst, the cluster of cells an embryo forms about five days after fertilisation.
One team, all the way
The same people, from your first conversation through to the care that follows.
Illustration of an embryologist using fine forceps over a petri dish in the laboratory.
Clinically led, never revenue-led
We only recommend add-ons when there is a clinical reason for you. Many have limited evidence, and we will tell you straight.
Illustration of embryo transfer: a thin catheter placing an embryo into the womb.
Care that understands who you are
Your culture, your faith, your family and your circumstances are not obstacles to work around. They are part of your care.
Illustration of ICSI: a fine needle injecting a single sperm directly into an egg.
Whatever happens, we stay
If a cycle does not work you will hear it from a human voice, not a letter, and we will sit down with you honestly to understand what happened.

What
Donor & family-building
 costs?

At Veya Fertility in London, IUI with donor sperm starts at £1,500 a cycle and donor egg IVF at £8,950. Shared motherhood (reciprocal IVF, ROPA) is a fixed £4,500, known-donor IVF is £4,500 plus £650 for donor screening, and our surrogacy clinical programme starts at £14,500.

Costs depend on the route: donor eggs or sperm, shared motherhood, or surrogacy. On your free consultation, we'll map the right path for you and give you a clear, itemised total. Nothing hidden, and nothing on your bill you didn't agree to.

Book a free consultation
Free Consultation with a Fertility Specialist
More details
Free
  • A 15-minute consultation with a Fertility Specialist
  • A plain-English answer on where you stand and what your options are
  • An honest view on whether treatment is the right next step for you

No referral needed, and no obligation to book anything afterwards. If we do not think we are the right clinic for you, we will tell you and point you towards one that is.

IUI with Donor Sperm
More details
From
£1,500
  • Monitoring
  • Donor coordination
  • Insemination
  • Nurse support
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)

Excludes: donor sperm purchase, medication

IUI with Donor Sperm – Three-Cycle Package
More details
From
£3,900
  • Three IUI cycles with donor sperm, each as per the single cycle
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)

Excludes: donor sperm purchase, medication

Donor Egg IVF
More details
From
£8,950
  • Donor egg cycle
  • Embryology care
  • Embryo transfer
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)

Excludes: medication

Known Donor Screening
More details
£650
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)
  • Blood group and genetic carrier screening
  • Semen analysis with DNA fragmentation testing, where the donor is providing sperm
  • Results reviewed with you and your donor

Anyone donating eggs or sperm to you has to be screened before treatment can begin. This is an HFEA requirement, and it protects you, your donor, and any child born. It is charged separately from treatment, so you only pay for it once.

Shared Motherhood / Reciprocal IVF (ROPA)
More details
Fixed
£4,500
  • One partner provides the eggs, the other carries the pregnancy
  • Embryology care
  • Embryo transfer
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)

Excludes: donor sperm

Known Donor IVF Pathway
More details
£4,500
  • IVF treatment using a known donor
  • Embryology care
  • Embryo transfer
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)

Excludes: donor screening (charged separately, see Known Donor Screening)

Surrogacy Clinical Programme
More details
From
£14,500
  • Fertility treatment planning
  • IVF treatment
  • Counselling
  • Surrogate counselling
  • Surrogate screening
  • Embryo transfer
  • Virology screening (HIV, hepatitis B and C, chlamydia and gonorrhoea)

Excludes: legal fees, agency fees, surrogate expenses

Additional Treatments, only when there is a reason.

We only recommend additional services when there is a clinical reason for you. Many add-ons across the industry have limited evidence, and we will tell you straight. Prices are in our full price list.
ICSI
A single sperm injected directly into the egg, where sperm quality is a factor.

Questions families
ask us.

If your question is not here, ask us. No question is too small.
We're two men. What is our pathway?

Your route to a family involves an egg donor and a surrogate. Clinically, we create embryos using one or both of your sperm and donor eggs, and then transfer an embryo to your surrogate.

We provide the clinical treatment. We do not match surrogates, so you will usually work with a not-for-profit surrogacy organisation to find yours, and we will happily work alongside them. Our surrogacy clinical programme starts at £14,500 and includes counselling for you and for your surrogate, her screening, treatment and transfer.

Legal parenthood in UK surrogacy works differently from donor conception: your surrogate is the legal mother at birth, and you apply for a parental order afterwards. This is where independent legal advice is not optional, and we will point you to specialists who do this properly.

What is shared motherhood, or ROPA?

Shared motherhood, sometimes called reciprocal IVF or ROPA, is where one partner provides the eggs and the other carries the pregnancy. Both of you are physically part of how your child comes into the world, which for a lot of couples is the whole point.

Clinically it is IVF with donor sperm, using your partner's eggs rather than a donor's. It is £4,500 as a fixed price with us, not including donor sperm.

You will both need to sign HFEA consent and parenthood forms before treatment, and we will make sure that is done properly and in the right order. Nobody here will ask which of you is the 'real' mother.

Can I use a donor I know?

Yes. A known donor, often a friend or family member, is a recognised pathway and one we support. Your donor is screened first, which costs £650 and covers virology, blood group and genetic carrier screening, plus a semen analysis with DNA fragmentation testing where they are donating sperm.

The known-donor IVF pathway itself is £4,500, and screening is charged separately so you only pay for it once.

Two things we insist on. Your donor gets their own counselling, separately from yours, because their decision deserves that. And both of you get independent legal advice, because the boundaries you agree now are much easier to set before a child exists than after.

How do you find donors from my ethnic background?

Honestly, this is harder in the UK than it should be. UK data shows that more than half of the donor sperm used by Black, Mixed and Other ethnicity patients has to be imported, because the domestic donor pool does not reflect who actually lives here.

What we do about it: we tell you the real picture for your background at the start rather than after you have committed, we work with international donor banks where the UK pool is thin, and we explain what the different banks mean for your child's future right to information. If matching is going to take longer, you will hear that from us early.

What we will not do is imply a choice is wider than it is.

Am I the legal parent if I use a donor?

In almost all cases, yes, and the donor is not. When you use a donor through a UK licensed clinic like ours, the donor has no legal parenthood and no financial responsibility for your child.

The detail depends on your situation. If you are married or in a civil partnership, your spouse or partner is normally the second legal parent automatically. If you are not, both of you must sign HFEA parenthood consent forms before treatment starts. Get that order wrong and legal parenthood can be genuinely difficult to fix afterwards, which is why we walk you through the forms rather than handing them over.

One warning worth giving plainly: donor arrangements made privately, outside a licensed clinic, do not carry these protections, and the donor may be a legal parent. For surrogacy and known-donor arrangements we will also point you to independent legal advice, because you need someone acting for you and not for us.

Will my child be able to find out who the donor is?

Yes, if you use a UK-registered donor. Under UK law, anyone conceived from a donation made after 1 April 2005 can apply to the HFEA at 18 for identifying information about their donor, including their name and last known address. From 16 they can ask for non-identifying information, such as physical description, ethnicity and any message the donor left.

Donor anonymity in the UK is time-limited, not permanent, and it is worth knowing that before you start. Rules differ if you use an overseas donor bank, and we will explain exactly what applies to the donor you are considering.

Most families find the harder question is not the law but when and how to tell a child. Our counselling covers that, and it is available years later, not only during treatment.

How do I choose between donor eggs, donor sperm or shared motherhood?

It depends on your situation: whether you need eggs, sperm, or both, and whether a partner would like to carry the pregnancy. On your free consultation we'll map the options and the legal side together, with no pressure.

Do you offer surrogacy?

We provide the clinical treatment involved in a surrogacy arrangement you've made. We don't arrange or match surrogates, but we support the medical side and point you to the right legal advice.

Our surrogacy clinical programme starts at £14,500 and includes treatment planning, IVF, counselling for you and for your surrogate, surrogate screening, embryo transfer and virology screening. Legal fees, agency fees and your surrogate's expenses sit outside that, and we'll say so plainly rather than let you find out later.

I am a solo parent by choice. Is Veya built for me?

Absolutely. We support solo parents throughout, from donor-sperm options to the clinical and practical steps, without any assumptions about what your family should look like.

Wherever you are in your journey, start with a
Your first step at Veya is a free consultation with a Fertility Specialist with decades of experience in helping patients start their families. It's not a sales call. It's time to understand you, your story and your options, with no pressure and no obligation.
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